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		<title>By: duane</title>
		<link>http://www.duanemoody.com/2007/09/just-a-few-thoughts-and-observations-wednesday-edition/#comment-17933</link>
		<dc:creator>duane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Sep 2007 15:27:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>atlmalcontent, you really do love to just make up whatever you want to from stuff you read, don't you? I never said the Burma thing was a non-issue, what I said was, that it came out of left field; but maybe that's because I don't remember hearing anything about it in the news before the other day.

My point WAS that given the hostile situation in Iraq, and the numerous innocents being killed every day there, not to mention the fact that we are currently engaged in a war there, that perhaps it should take a little precedent or garner appropriate attention over another issue, like Burma. Burma's situation is bad, and I totally hope that we do something, but I think that we need to take care of the shit we stirred up in Iraq before we start spreading out our already thinning military. Jeez, you can't win with people like you, you condemn me for wanting us to leave Iraq, and then the second the president dangles something shiny in your face, you get distracted and want to focus on something else. You are a prime example of how this administration has done such a good job of being deceptive; you follow every distraction without question.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>atlmalcontent, you really do love to just make up whatever you want to from stuff you read, don&#8217;t you? I never said the Burma thing was a non-issue, what I said was, that it came out of left field; but maybe that&#8217;s because I don&#8217;t remember hearing anything about it in the news before the other day.</p>
<p>My point WAS that given the hostile situation in Iraq, and the numerous innocents being killed every day there, not to mention the fact that we are currently engaged in a war there, that perhaps it should take a little precedent or garner appropriate attention over another issue, like Burma. Burma&#8217;s situation is bad, and I totally hope that we do something, but I think that we need to take care of the shit we stirred up in Iraq before we start spreading out our already thinning military. Jeez, you can&#8217;t win with people like you, you condemn me for wanting us to leave Iraq, and then the second the president dangles something shiny in your face, you get distracted and want to focus on something else. You are a prime example of how this administration has done such a good job of being deceptive; you follow every distraction without question.</p>
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		<title>By: mitch</title>
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		<dc:creator>mitch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Sep 2007 11:06:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I must say I agree with Duane that you should practice what you preach and the Shrub administration has not done that (big surprise there). Shrub probably didn't understand his own speech anyway as he is such an idiot....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I must say I agree with Duane that you should practice what you preach and the Shrub administration has not done that (big surprise there). Shrub probably didn&#8217;t understand his own speech anyway as he is such an idiot&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: atlmalcontent</title>
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		<dc:creator>atlmalcontent</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Sep 2007 06:59:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Damn Diane, you put me in my place again. So you're saying we should say nothing while innocents are murdered in Burma?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Damn Diane, you put me in my place again. So you&#8217;re saying we should say nothing while innocents are murdered in Burma?</p>
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		<title>By: duane</title>
		<link>http://www.duanemoody.com/2007/09/just-a-few-thoughts-and-observations-wednesday-edition/#comment-17839</link>
		<dc:creator>duane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Sep 2007 20:56:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>AH, another one-sided comment from my favorite one-sided "lack of perspective" obsessed fan! Dude, just because people aren't being killed by the government, it doesn't make us a shining example for human rights; just look around at what we have done in other parts of the world. I would continue to point it out to you, but you will continue to miss it; it gets REALLY old. 

My point, that you missed (surprise), was that we have no business lecturing the world about human rights when we don't even practice what we preach. That's called hypocrisy, and that is what this speech was.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>AH, another one-sided comment from my favorite one-sided &#8220;lack of perspective&#8221; obsessed fan! Dude, just because people aren&#8217;t being killed by the government, it doesn&#8217;t make us a shining example for human rights; just look around at what we have done in other parts of the world. I would continue to point it out to you, but you will continue to miss it; it gets REALLY old. </p>
<p>My point, that you missed (surprise), was that we have no business lecturing the world about human rights when we don&#8217;t even practice what we preach. That&#8217;s called hypocrisy, and that is what this speech was.</p>
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		<title>By: atlmalcontent</title>
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		<dc:creator>atlmalcontent</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Sep 2007 00:55:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Duane, which countries should be lecturing us about human rights? Russia? China? Burma (where 4,000 protesters have been killed by the government)? Do your homework first, and don't let your reflexive hatred of this country (is it Uncle Sam's fault that people were mean to you in grade school) get in the way of the facts. 

And as you may heard, there's apparently no gay people in Iran, so I was thinking you could serve as a cultural attache of sorts for our community. If you can survive under the oppressive thumb of the Bush Adminstration, then certainly you can tolerate Ahmadinejad's "quirks."</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Duane, which countries should be lecturing us about human rights? Russia? China? Burma (where 4,000 protesters have been killed by the government)? Do your homework first, and don&#8217;t let your reflexive hatred of this country (is it Uncle Sam&#8217;s fault that people were mean to you in grade school) get in the way of the facts. </p>
<p>And as you may heard, there&#8217;s apparently no gay people in Iran, so I was thinking you could serve as a cultural attache of sorts for our community. If you can survive under the oppressive thumb of the Bush Adminstration, then certainly you can tolerate Ahmadinejad&#8217;s &#8220;quirks.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: duane</title>
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		<dc:creator>duane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Sep 2007 19:14:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Joey, again, I wish it were that simple, as I have tried repeatedly to do this, with no success. With regards to our bills (shared that is), we are totally 50/50. Everything else is on his or my own. That's the way it always has been, and probably always will be.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joey, again, I wish it were that simple, as I have tried repeatedly to do this, with no success. With regards to our bills (shared that is), we are totally 50/50. Everything else is on his or my own. That&#8217;s the way it always has been, and probably always will be.</p>
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		<title>By: joey</title>
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		<dc:creator>joey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Sep 2007 18:25:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh I'm sure that there is tons of stuff that I don't know... as there should be.  But that doesn't change the fact that if money is such an issue(as it obviously is since this is not the first time that you've made reference to his weirdness with money), you two should commit yourselves to some sort of budget that works for the both of you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh I&#8217;m sure that there is tons of stuff that I don&#8217;t know&#8230; as there should be.  But that doesn&#8217;t change the fact that if money is such an issue(as it obviously is since this is not the first time that you&#8217;ve made reference to his weirdness with money), you two should commit yourselves to some sort of budget that works for the both of you.</p>
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		<title>By: duane</title>
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		<dc:creator>duane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Sep 2007 18:15:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>James, it is "out of left field" when we are at war with another country entirely, and are threatening to go to war with their neighbor. 

Joey, we have a joint account. I am not mad that he bought it, I am upset that he bought it the same week that he complained about not being able to afford the mortgage. There is more than I have said here in this rant.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>James, it is &#8220;out of left field&#8221; when we are at war with another country entirely, and are threatening to go to war with their neighbor. </p>
<p>Joey, we have a joint account. I am not mad that he bought it, I am upset that he bought it the same week that he complained about not being able to afford the mortgage. There is more than I have said here in this rant.</p>
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		<title>By: joey</title>
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		<dc:creator>joey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Sep 2007 18:06:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well the wording wasn't correct in what you should say to him.  Obviously I don't know the whole situation, and you need to tailor that to it.   But from what I observed over the weekend, it doesn't seem like a simple matter of "he's putting his needs above yours."  When he has to start making payments on it, it's only going to be 69 dollars a month.  And I guarantee you that's what he was looking at instead of the 7000 total price tag.

You may want to consider opening a joint account.  It will eliminate any kind of a "well I paid this.." or "I paid for that" mentality.  And then out of that, set aside two equal frivolity funds.   One for you.. and one for him.  Have the same amount moved to each one every month.   And then when you go out and indulge yourselves, you can rest assured that one of you isn't putting putting your needs above the other.  Make sure to allocate the right amount that will keep your shopping bug under control but isn't impairing your ability to pay the bills or continue to save.  And if you want something that is outside of the budget.. or the fund can't pay monthly... don't get it. Problem solved.

If James is so weird with money as you've expressed in the past..and you're concerned about what he's spending, commit yourself to a rigid budget, and make him do the exact same thing.   That way you're not making him do something that you aren't willing to do as well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well the wording wasn&#8217;t correct in what you should say to him.  Obviously I don&#8217;t know the whole situation, and you need to tailor that to it.   But from what I observed over the weekend, it doesn&#8217;t seem like a simple matter of &#8220;he&#8217;s putting his needs above yours.&#8221;  When he has to start making payments on it, it&#8217;s only going to be 69 dollars a month.  And I guarantee you that&#8217;s what he was looking at instead of the 7000 total price tag.</p>
<p>You may want to consider opening a joint account.  It will eliminate any kind of a &#8220;well I paid this..&#8221; or &#8220;I paid for that&#8221; mentality.  And then out of that, set aside two equal frivolity funds.   One for you.. and one for him.  Have the same amount moved to each one every month.   And then when you go out and indulge yourselves, you can rest assured that one of you isn&#8217;t putting putting your needs above the other.  Make sure to allocate the right amount that will keep your shopping bug under control but isn&#8217;t impairing your ability to pay the bills or continue to save.  And if you want something that is outside of the budget.. or the fund can&#8217;t pay monthly&#8230; don&#8217;t get it. Problem solved.</p>
<p>If James is so weird with money as you&#8217;ve expressed in the past..and you&#8217;re concerned about what he&#8217;s spending, commit yourself to a rigid budget, and make him do the exact same thing.   That way you&#8217;re not making him do something that you aren&#8217;t willing to do as well.</p>
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		<title>By: james</title>
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		<dc:creator>james</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Sep 2007 17:29:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>duane - do you realize that if you lived in burma (myanmar) and wrote the following post about than shwe, the military ruler of myanmar, rather than about george w. bush, you would by now be in a prison?

you would receive no fair trial, have no lawyer to represent you, you would simply be put in jail, for daring to voice criticism of the government.

yet here in the us, you can have a blog where you express in some of the most foul language your disdain for political leaders in the united states.

how can you claim any kind of relativism with the us and the regimes the president singled out?

do you really think you could express these opinions about kim jong il if you lived in north korea?

oh and i don't think the millions of burmese who have lived under military repression for 15  years would consider the president's public support of their cause to be "out of left field."</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>duane - do you realize that if you lived in burma (myanmar) and wrote the following post about than shwe, the military ruler of myanmar, rather than about george w. bush, you would by now be in a prison?</p>
<p>you would receive no fair trial, have no lawyer to represent you, you would simply be put in jail, for daring to voice criticism of the government.</p>
<p>yet here in the us, you can have a blog where you express in some of the most foul language your disdain for political leaders in the united states.</p>
<p>how can you claim any kind of relativism with the us and the regimes the president singled out?</p>
<p>do you really think you could express these opinions about kim jong il if you lived in north korea?</p>
<p>oh and i don&#8217;t think the millions of burmese who have lived under military repression for 15  years would consider the president&#8217;s public support of their cause to be &#8220;out of left field.&#8221;</p>
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