Comments on: sad… so, so sad… does it at least make you feel better? http://www.duanemoody.com/2007/02/sad-so-so-sad-does-it-at-least-make-you-feel-better/ Thu, 08 Jan 2009 14:12:43 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: Motown http://www.duanemoody.com/2007/02/sad-so-so-sad-does-it-at-least-make-you-feel-better/#comment-30156 Motown Fri, 21 Mar 2008 01:34:40 +0000 http://www.duanemoody.com/2007/02/sad-so-so-sad-does-it-at-least-make-you-feel-better/#comment-30156 God bless you Duane! People sometimes don't know how powerful their words can be...they can edify or they can destroy. You are a better and insightful person as a result of this. The Bible also says "Rebuke the Devil and he will flee". Self defense can also be physical, so don't be afraid to use it if it becomes life threatening. If you ever need to talk, let me know. Peace! God bless you Duane! People sometimes don’t know how powerful their words can be…they can edify or they can destroy. You are a better and insightful person as a result of this. The Bible also says “Rebuke the Devil and he will flee”. Self defense can also be physical, so don’t be afraid to use it if it becomes life threatening. If you ever need to talk, let me know. Peace!

]]> By: dpb http://www.duanemoody.com/2007/02/sad-so-so-sad-does-it-at-least-make-you-feel-better/#comment-5321 dpb Wed, 28 Feb 2007 15:00:39 +0000 http://www.duanemoody.com/2007/02/sad-so-so-sad-does-it-at-least-make-you-feel-better/#comment-5321 then we are in agreement... ;-) then we are in agreement… ;-)

]]> By: Bugboy http://www.duanemoody.com/2007/02/sad-so-so-sad-does-it-at-least-make-you-feel-better/#comment-5310 Bugboy Wed, 28 Feb 2007 02:14:47 +0000 http://www.duanemoody.com/2007/02/sad-so-so-sad-does-it-at-least-make-you-feel-better/#comment-5310 Seriously, you have quite manly, muscular arms that should no longer be referred to as arms. Instead, call them "homophobe adjusters". Seriously, you have quite manly, muscular arms that should no longer be referred to as arms. Instead, call them “homophobe adjusters”.

]]> By: duane http://www.duanemoody.com/2007/02/sad-so-so-sad-does-it-at-least-make-you-feel-better/#comment-5306 duane Wed, 28 Feb 2007 00:53:00 +0000 http://www.duanemoody.com/2007/02/sad-so-so-sad-does-it-at-least-make-you-feel-better/#comment-5306 bugboy, the arm comment made me LOL... seriously? I need to get back to the gym, because they just feel fat now... LOL dave, that was kind of the point I was making... I am not going to let people get to me, because they are just sad and insecure, and trying to make me feel bad to make themselves feel better. Kim; I could make a list. It would be quite a list. bugboy, the arm comment made me LOL… seriously? I need to get back to the gym, because they just feel fat now… LOL

dave, that was kind of the point I was making… I am not going to let people get to me, because they are just sad and insecure, and trying to make me feel bad to make themselves feel better.

Kim; I could make a list. It would be quite a list.

]]> By: Kim http://www.duanemoody.com/2007/02/sad-so-so-sad-does-it-at-least-make-you-feel-better/#comment-5305 Kim Wed, 28 Feb 2007 00:32:56 +0000 http://www.duanemoody.com/2007/02/sad-so-so-sad-does-it-at-least-make-you-feel-better/#comment-5305 Well said D, well said. People who who take their insecurities out on others are sad and pathetic. You're right to take the high road and not give them the satisfaction of responding to their ignorance. I've always been a low road kinda girl though so if you have a list of these people that hurt you, I'd be more than happy to kick their asses. Well said D, well said. People who who take their insecurities out on others are sad and pathetic. You’re right to take the high road and not give them the satisfaction of responding to their ignorance.

I’ve always been a low road kinda girl though so if you have a list of these people that hurt you, I’d be more than happy to kick their asses.

]]> By: dpb http://www.duanemoody.com/2007/02/sad-so-so-sad-does-it-at-least-make-you-feel-better/#comment-5304 dpb Tue, 27 Feb 2007 23:49:54 +0000 http://www.duanemoody.com/2007/02/sad-so-so-sad-does-it-at-least-make-you-feel-better/#comment-5304 Yes, life is difficult. That's what makes it worth living. If it were easy, what would be the point? What I was trying to say was, who the fuck cares if people try to hurt you? Regardless of whether you're straight, gay, black, white, male, female, whatever... there will always be people out there that are threatened by you or simply don't like you. Are you going to sit around worrying why they don't like you or what you have to do to gain their approval? I'm sure as hell not. If people don't like me (but who wouldn't like a straight white male, our lives are inherently perfect!!! sarcasm heavily implied) then I say fuck'em. I have my friends. I'm not worried about anyone else. Yes, life is difficult. That’s what makes it worth living. If it were easy, what would be the point?

What I was trying to say was, who the fuck cares if people try to hurt you? Regardless of whether you’re straight, gay, black, white, male, female, whatever… there will always be people out there that are threatened by you or simply don’t like you. Are you going to sit around worrying why they don’t like you or what you have to do to gain their approval? I’m sure as hell not. If people don’t like me (but who wouldn’t like a straight white male, our lives are inherently perfect!!! sarcasm heavily implied) then I say fuck’em. I have my friends. I’m not worried about anyone else.

]]> By: Bugboy http://www.duanemoody.com/2007/02/sad-so-so-sad-does-it-at-least-make-you-feel-better/#comment-5302 Bugboy Tue, 27 Feb 2007 23:28:44 +0000 http://www.duanemoody.com/2007/02/sad-so-so-sad-does-it-at-least-make-you-feel-better/#comment-5302 "What I have come to realize about people that do this, is that those people are really just afraid of dealing with their own issues, and so they point out and ridicule others." You do have very big arms. I think you should have cracked a few heads up against the wall. But I digress. I think what you say (above) is sometimes true. Sometimes, however, it's just ego, wanting to feel in control. Plus, maybe they were just trying to entertain themselves and others with no regard for your feelings. It's not necessarily them having to deal with issues, I thi nk. “What I have come to realize about people that do this, is that those people are really just afraid of dealing with their own issues, and so they point out and ridicule others.”

You do have very big arms. I think you should have cracked a few heads up against the wall. But I digress. I think what you say (above) is sometimes true. Sometimes, however, it’s just ego, wanting to feel in control. Plus, maybe they were just trying to entertain themselves and others with no regard for your feelings. It’s not necessarily them having to deal with issues, I thi nk.

]]> By: duane http://www.duanemoody.com/2007/02/sad-so-so-sad-does-it-at-least-make-you-feel-better/#comment-5300 duane Tue, 27 Feb 2007 22:41:27 +0000 http://www.duanemoody.com/2007/02/sad-so-so-sad-does-it-at-least-make-you-feel-better/#comment-5300 dave, that is the coldest, most insensitive advice ever; grow a pair? Basically, the point of this post was to highlight the struggle it takes to finally get to a point where you can shrug off things that people do to try and hurt you. I guess we can't all be hard-balled "realists" as you, a man of the "tough world". dave, that is the coldest, most insensitive advice ever; grow a pair? Basically, the point of this post was to highlight the struggle it takes to finally get to a point where you can shrug off things that people do to try and hurt you. I guess we can’t all be hard-balled “realists” as you, a man of the “tough world”.

]]> By: Dr. Sparky http://www.duanemoody.com/2007/02/sad-so-so-sad-does-it-at-least-make-you-feel-better/#comment-5299 Dr. Sparky Tue, 27 Feb 2007 22:00:58 +0000 http://www.duanemoody.com/2007/02/sad-so-so-sad-does-it-at-least-make-you-feel-better/#comment-5299 Words to live by, Duane. Thanks for writing them. We would all do well to make note. You truly are one in a million. Don't forget it, Mister. Words to live by, Duane. Thanks for writing them. We would all do well to make note.

You truly are one in a million. Don’t forget it, Mister.

]]> By: dpb http://www.duanemoody.com/2007/02/sad-so-so-sad-does-it-at-least-make-you-feel-better/#comment-5297 dpb Tue, 27 Feb 2007 21:54:07 +0000 http://www.duanemoody.com/2007/02/sad-so-so-sad-does-it-at-least-make-you-feel-better/#comment-5297 The world is a tough place. Grow a pair and move on. I don't give a shit about anyone and I don't expect them to give a shit about me. The world is a tough place. Grow a pair and move on. I don’t give a shit about anyone and I don’t expect them to give a shit about me.

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