When I say that being gay is a choice I do not mean that you literally said one day, “i think i’ll be gay now.” What I meant, is that after all the factors of influence (environment, upbringing, genetics, etc.), you conciously and/or subconciously give in to what you feel like you are supposed to do.

That doesn’t sound like much of a “choice” to me. A “choice” is like choosing whether you want chocolate or vanilla, whether you want to vote or not, whether to wear this shirt or that one… You have described a situation of choosing to be yourself (come out and be gay, because you just are), or deny that, and live in the closet. There is no choice as to whether you are actually gay or not, even you indicated that. And also, if you think that it is a valid argument that someone could choose whether or not to express their homosexuality (which isn’t something they chose, it is just part of who they are), then, well, I say walk a mile in those shoes and see how far you get. It’s a pretty tough road; I know, I have been there. Until you have… then I don’t think you have much reference or say, honestly. People can’t choose to be homosexual, and it is pretty fucking hard to “choose” to deny it, just look at the suicide rates amongst gay teens, is that something that you like?

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I think, DUE TO MY BELIEFS, that homosexuality is wrong (and not by default).

By defining something as right or wrong, whether you want to admit it or not, you are placing judgement on it. But, Christians have done that for years, I don’t think that identifying it as judgement is going to change anything. You are still judging me, and that is what I am calling out here.

And calling me a bigot for my beliefs is just as ignorant as what I have stated. I have no hatred or disdain for anyone who chooses that lifestyle; I just don’t agree with that choice.

Actually calling you a bigot is pretty accurate, considering that a bigot is someone that is intolerant of another group or person, because of who they are. By placing judgement (as established above), you are stating that intolerance, which, incidentally, doesn’t require hatred. Also, it seems you are the ignorant one in this case; being gay is NOT A CHOICE. NOT now, NOT ever. To even suggest that it is, tells me that you don’t understand it, and don’t know enough about it to truly know the truth, which IS actually the definition of ignorance. It doesn’t matter if you don’t agree with something, but when you say it is wrong and call it “a choice”, well, that is bigoted and ignorant.

I never said I thought homosexuality is bad, just wrong. That is part of my beliefs.

Well, that sounds like judgement from you, not belief you hold. You cannot tell me something is wrong if I don’t believe it to be wrong (especially when it isn’t). You may not believe it is “right”, but that does not make it wrong by default. Also, it may be wrong FOR YOU (as in, not your cup of tea, or not something that YOU want to do), but that doesn’t make it wrong in whole. This sort of thinking is bigotry, and is based in ignorance and hatred.